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When you first come to China you can almost imagine that it isn’t really that different from home. It certainly isn’t the old China that you see in the movies – women walking around in Qipao, Shaolin monks roaming the streets, temples and pagodas on every corner. In fact, many Chinese cities physically resemble their counterparts abroad, and it can be easy when you first step off the plane to feel like, aside from the funny signs in a different language, not that much is different. But the differences between China and the West are often more subtle and include differences in lifestyle and ways that might not stand out immediately when you take your first forays onto Chinese soil; but you will notice them, in time. Here we look at ways that Chinese lives are different from ours back home.
當(dāng)你第一次踏上中國(guó)這片熱土，你完全會(huì)驚訝地發(fā)現(xiàn)：它和你的祖國(guó)并沒(méi)有太大的區(qū)別。中國(guó)已不再是你從舊電影里所看到的那樣：滿大街都是穿著旗袍的女人，到處可以看到少林寺和尚的身影，寺廟寶塔隨處可見。其實(shí)，從外表上看，許多中國(guó)的城市正在和西方的城市越來(lái)越相似，當(dāng)你走下飛機(jī)，除了對(duì)用中文表達(dá)的標(biāo)示感到有趣之外，并不會(huì)覺(jué)得有何異樣。然而， 中西方社會(huì)的差異卻是真切地存在著，只是你初來(lái)乍到，難以體會(huì)而已，我們一起來(lái)看看中國(guó)人有著怎樣不同的生活吧。
1) No Car Culture汽車文化
Although car ownership is becoming more common in China, you are just as likely to see people walking or riding bikes as you are to see them behind the wheel. Aside from the obvious health benefits to walking and bike riding, the lack of a car culture in China has a larger effect on Chinese lifestyles than you might first realise. There are almost no drive-through fast food restaurants, for starters, which means that while fast food is popular in China it is not so convenient as to have become a daily part of most people’s routines. Because most Chinese people are not car owners, Chinese cities have extremely well developed public transportation. Lack of car ownership also means less urban sprawl, with most city dwellers concentrated in urban areas near the city center. Although these features of Chinese life are changing, we doubt that cars will completely overtake other forms of transportation anytime soon.
在中國(guó)，雖然擁有私家車的人數(shù)在不斷攀升，但是走路或騎車依然是絕大部分中國(guó)人的主要代步方式。當(dāng)然，走路與騎車對(duì)身體健康的好處是顯而易見的，只是汽車文化的缺失深遠(yuǎn)地影響著中國(guó)人的生活方式。盡管快餐文化在中國(guó)已經(jīng)日益流行，但以車代步尚未成為中國(guó)人的主流意識(shí)，所以快餐就難以像它在西方社會(huì)那樣成為人們每日必吃的方便食品，你在這里也幾乎找不到“免下車快餐廳”。正因?yàn)橄啾榷愿嗟娜藳](méi)有汽車，所以許多城市不遺余力地發(fā)展其公共交通設(shè)施。也正是由于這個(gè)原因，所以城市人口很難向郊區(qū)大幅遷移，人們還是愿意選擇住在出行方便的市中心。隨著中國(guó)日新月異的變化，人們的生活正在發(fā)生著巨大改變，但很難說(shuō)在不久的將來(lái)，開車將完全成為中國(guó)人首選的交通工具。
2) On Being a Teen 青少年問(wèn)題
Chinese culture does not indulge in the idea that kids will be kids or that teenagers are bound to get up to no good. You won’t hear tales from Chinese teenagers about the keggers they went to after homecoming or the joints they smoked under the bleachers. There is no high school football team and no cheerleaders, no yearbook, no senior prom. Instead, young Chinese people spend hours upon relentless hours prepping for their college entrance exams. They are often not allowed to date and while of course teenage puppy love exists, open displays of affection can be grounds for serious punishment or even expulsion in some Chinese high schools. In the West our stories of our wild and crazy youth are a huge part of our collective consciousness, so much so that the topic has spawned countless movies, songs, and T.V. shows, and has shaped how we ourselves view the boundaries between childhood and adulthood. In China, teenagers are still very much children and are expected to do as they are told, get good grades and not disappoint their families.
受中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)文化根深蒂固的影響，中國(guó)的大人普遍不相信這點(diǎn)：小孩就是小孩，青少年可以整天無(wú)所事事！你不可能聽到中國(guó)孩子跑來(lái)告訴你：去參加校友返校活動(dòng)中的啤酒聚會(huì)是多么得有趣或在露天看臺(tái)上偷偷嘗試抽大卷煙是怎樣的感受。很多中國(guó)的高中都沒(méi)有正規(guī)的校足球隊(duì)，更別說(shuō)為此助威的啦啦隊(duì)長(zhǎng)了，學(xué)校通常也不為高中畢業(yè)生制作畢業(yè)年鑒（記錄他們的成長(zhǎng)歷程和學(xué)校的大事記）或組織高年級(jí)的學(xué)生舞會(huì)。中國(guó)的青少年都在忙什么呢？事實(shí)上，他們把大部分時(shí)間花在了迎接高考上。父母、學(xué)校、社會(huì)輿論不允許他們出去約會(huì)，當(dāng)然早戀的情況還是時(shí)有發(fā)生。僅僅是表達(dá)對(duì)某異性同學(xué)的愛慕就可能成為高中校園內(nèi)的爆炸性新聞，甚至可能會(huì)招來(lái)校方的處分。而在西方，我們常能看到青少年在情竇初開的年紀(jì)，做出一些瘋狂的事情，這已成為西方社會(huì)集體意識(shí)的一大部分。青少年戀愛問(wèn)題催生出了無(wú)數(shù)以此為題材的電影、歌曲和電視節(jié)目，同時(shí)也告訴了我們一個(gè)青少年從童年邁入成年的標(biāo)志。這樣看來(lái)，中國(guó)的青少年更多地還是被當(dāng)成小孩子在對(duì)待，只要做到聽話，成績(jī)好，不要讓父母失望就可以了！
3) Sense of Community社區(qū)意識(shí)
The local parks and neighbourhood courtyards are a cornerstone of the social network for Chinese people. After dinner and before the sun goes down, the parks start to fill up with people – older people practicing tai qi, middle aged men playing cards or chess, young people strolling in pairs, and children running around as their parents look on. This evening time is when Chinese families come out to socialize, to gossip with the neighbours, enjoy some fresh air, and get a bit of exercise. While we in the West, especially America, have become paranoid about the predator lurking around the corner, have become isolated in front of our various screens and devices, over here in China the tradition of the neighbourhood community still persists, bringing back good memories to those of us old enough to remember riding our bikes with the neighbourhood kids or sitting on the front porch and chatting with the neighbours.
對(duì)于中國(guó)的老百姓來(lái)說(shuō)，自家附近的公園和小區(qū)的花園是鄰里交際的主要場(chǎng)所。每天晚飯后，在太陽(yáng)落山前，人們就開始慢慢聚集到公園里，老年人打太極，中年人打牌或下棋，青年情侶攜手散步，小孩子們?cè)诟改傅目醋o(hù)下追逐打鬧，好不開心！中國(guó)家庭往往利用傍晚的時(shí)間出來(lái)與鄰居聊天，呼吸新鮮空氣，并做一些身體鍛煉，這是一種中國(guó)式的社交方式。而在西方人，尤其是美國(guó)，只要看到有人在街角閑逛，我們就會(huì)恐懼是壞蛋潛伏在那里。只要對(duì)著各種電子屏幕和器械，我們就覺(jué)得很滿足，漸漸開始遠(yuǎn)離真實(shí)的人際關(guān)系。而在中國(guó)，傳統(tǒng)的社區(qū)文化依然被保存得很好，這讓人不禁回想起我們以前的生活場(chǎng)景：小時(shí)候我們也喜歡與鄰居家孩子比賽騎單車，也常常坐在房前的門廊下與隔壁鄰居們聊天。這種溫馨的場(chǎng)面現(xiàn)在越來(lái)越少了！
4) Fresh Food新鮮食物
In China, frozen TV dinners are largely a foreign concept. Each morning you can see the mothers, grandmothers and ayis on their way to the market to buy the fresh produce they need for the family’s meals. Many Chinese families still do not have refrigerators, nor do they particularly see the need for them, as they buy what they need for each day’s meal every day, sometimes even making several trips to the market in one day. Although it is arguably more convenient to make weekly or bi-weekly shopping trips to the big mega-mart, shopping daily ensures less waste, as you only buy what you are sure you will use in a day. Fresh meat and produce is also healthier than processed food, which is largely why Chinese food, despite being cooked in vats of oil, has a reputation for being better for you than Western food.
在中國(guó)，購(gòu)買速凍電視餐幾乎是一個(gè)全新的外來(lái)概念。每天清晨，菜場(chǎng)里到處都是家庭主婦們或保姆們的忙碌身影，她們正在為自家一天的飯菜采購(gòu)最新鮮的食材。許多沒(méi)添置冰箱的中國(guó)家庭，并不覺(jué)得冰箱有多大的用處，因?yàn)樗麄円蚜?xí)慣每天采購(gòu)當(dāng)日的食物，有時(shí)一天去幾次菜市場(chǎng)也不覺(jué)得麻煩。要是像西方人那樣一周或兩周去大超市采購(gòu)一次近期食品的話，當(dāng)然更方便且省時(shí)，但是中國(guó)人這種日采購(gòu)的方式卻能減少食物浪費(fèi)，只要算好當(dāng)天要吃的東西就好！比起西方菜肴，中國(guó)菜常以新鮮的魚肉和農(nóng)產(chǎn)品為烹飪食材，即使在其制作過(guò)程中加入了不少的食用油，它也要顯得更美味、更健康。
5) Family First家庭第一
While Westerners certainly love and cherish their families, the traditional family is the cornerstone of the Chinese lifestyle in ways that have become nearly obsolete back home. A traditional opposite sex marriage, for example, is considered essential to happiness and in China, single mothers or unmarried men and women over the age of 30 are rare. Most Chinese families consist of a mother, a father, a child or perhaps two, and one’s elderly parents living in the home and helping the family to raise their children while mother and father work hard to support the family financially. Most Chinese families have sit down dinners each night with all of the members of the family present and the matriarch of the family usually prepares a proper meal with several courses. The loss of this 1950’s-style family model has caused much discussion back home, as politicians rally around the family as a “cause,” the Pat Robertsons of the world need not despair, for better or worse the traditional family is alive and well – in Beijing, Shanghai and Xi’an.
珍愛家庭自然也是西方人所崇尚的理念，只是在西方人眼里，中國(guó)人至今堅(jiān)持的傳統(tǒng)家庭模式早已過(guò)時(shí)。比如，中國(guó)人認(rèn)為傳統(tǒng)的兩性婚姻是人生幸福的必要前提，所以在中國(guó)，單身媽媽或過(guò)了30歲依然未婚的男女并不多見。 絕大部分的中國(guó)家庭是這樣構(gòu)成的：媽媽、爸爸、一到兩個(gè)小孩，他們一起和爺爺奶奶或外公外婆住一起，這樣的好處是老人可以幫助照看孩子，而爸爸媽媽則可以更好地外出賺錢養(yǎng)家。到了傍晚，一家人齊聚一堂，共同分享由長(zhǎng)輩們準(zhǔn)備的晚餐，這樣的晚餐通常由好幾道菜組成，頗為豐盛。我們?cè)谏鲜兰o(jì)50年代也曾擁有過(guò)這樣的家庭模式，只是如今早已不見其蹤影，這引起了許多學(xué)者、政治家的熱烈討論。信奉傳統(tǒng)家庭理念的人們大可不必失望，因?yàn)橹辽僭谙癖本�、上海、西安這樣的中國(guó)大城市里，傳統(tǒng)的家庭模式依然完好地存在著。
