1. If you're single, resolve to do something new. Instead of thinking about internet, speed dating or buying a hot new outfit get out there and do it!
1.假如你還是單身,那么快去嘗試一些新東西吧。不要再宅在家里搞網(wǎng)絡(luò)了,去制備一身新衣服趕快出門結(jié)識(shí)異性吧。
2. Need some guidance on your love life? Booking a session with a Dating or Relationship Coach could be just the boost and direction that you need.
2. 需要給你的愛情生活一點(diǎn)指導(dǎo)?那么現(xiàn)在就預(yù)約一個(gè)戀愛關(guān)系教練,從他那里學(xué)習(xí)一些和愛人相處的藝術(shù)很有必要噢。
3. Take the opportunity to clear out your underwear drawer and consign all greying, baggy bras and pants to the bin. High street stores do fabulous underwear these days - invest in something sexy!
3. 趁著這個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)好好清理一下你的內(nèi)衣抽屜。把那些寬松的BRA和內(nèi)衣都扔掉,試著投資一下性感,對(duì),你知道我說(shuō)的什么,改變一下自己。讓你們的生活變得更附有情趣。
4. Pep up things in the bedroom, by spicing things up a little
4. 在臥室增加一些裝飾品,或者情趣類的小玩意。
5. Remind yourself that dating is about having fun. If you're stuck in a rut ask yourself "Is it worth it?" and if you need to move on, remember that practice makes perfect.
5. 對(duì)自己說(shuō),約會(huì)是為了尋找更多的樂(lè)趣。而不要僅僅停留在'為什么這樣做,這樣做值得嗎'之類的問(wèn)題上。
6. Being interested in activities outside of work/looking for a partner is what makes you interesting. Taking your foot off the gas in trying to find a partner and doing other stuff that you enjoy is often a fast track to finding someone special.
6. 為你的愛情積極投身于某個(gè)興趣活動(dòng)之中。和他/她一起互動(dòng)、探索,記住共同完成一件有意義的事情,是最值得紀(jì)念的。
7. Resolve to be firm but fair - letting someone down with a polite but clear message that you're not a match made in heaven, is better than being stuck on a second or third date because you don't want to upset them.
7. 對(duì)待感情同樣有原則--也許偶爾讓對(duì)方失望也不賴嘛!由于你禮貌的拒絕很清楚的告訴他你們并不非生來(lái)合適,這樣總好過(guò)你因?yàn)椴幌刖芙^對(duì)方在第二次或者第三次約會(huì)時(shí)感情就遇到瓶頸。
8. Next time your partner says "What's up?" resolve not to say "Nothing". Learn to speak your mind firmly but tactfully and improve those important communication skills.
8. 當(dāng)你愛人問(wèn)起"到底發(fā)生了什么事",請(qǐng)不要直接說(shuō)"不".請(qǐng)學(xué)會(huì)一些溝通技巧,會(huì)讓你們的交談更加順暢。
9. Resolve to improve your flirting skills. Flirting gets a lot of bad press, but done well to someone you fancy it's the most direct yet subtle message you can give and makes the other person feel great!
9. 改善你的調(diào)情技巧,差勁的調(diào)情技巧只會(huì)讓事情變得更糟哦~但如果用好了卻會(huì)事半功倍,這種直接的表達(dá)方式最容易讓對(duì)方感到踏實(shí)和幸福。
10. Be open minded about your potential partner. Don't be too picky with a long shopping list nor too random in your choices. Both are fruitless - restrict yourself to three "must haves" and let the rest unfold naturally.
10. 寬容開放的思想。不要為一些并不太重要的判斷上和愛人爭(zhēng)執(zhí),寬容一點(diǎn)對(duì)自己也對(duì)別人,這樣生活可能會(huì)更加輕松。